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Have a beautiful weekend!

Link love 5-27-16 | Misselainious blogHere’s some things I’ve been enjoying around the web lately.  Have a beautiful weekend friends!

LOL I joined snapchat (misselaini) but I’m still learning how to use it….this is hilarious because it highlights how ridiculous it can be. (But hey it’s fun too.) 😉

Having a picnic?  Wanting to have people over?  Then knowing how to make this is perfect and this too.

Going on a trip?  Here’s a cute packing list so you don’t forget anything. 🙂

These are so cute! I’m trying to convince my dad that he could totally make me a pair…

Satire at it’s best.  “Unambitious loser with happy, fulling life still lives in hometown.

Posted on May 27, 2016 by |

20 seconds of insane courage

20 seconds of insane courage | Misselainious blogDeep breath.  “Mom should I do this?”  Just do it.  (There’s a reason that’s a slogan.)  Sometimes you just need to go for it.  So I stood in my kitchen and I did something that I felt was so embarrassing but that I really did want to do.  I did the crazy thing.  My mom says I get it from her.

But my phone wasn’t sending the message I  was trying to deliver.  As in NO internet connection.  We have wifi but it wasn’t working, not even for a few seconds.  “How bad do you want this?” she asked.  So I took a walk and found some reception.

During that walk all I could think about was this quote from the film We Bought A Zoo: “You know, sometimes all you need is twenty seconds of insane courage.  Just literally twenty seconds of just embarrassing bravery.  And I promise you, something great will come of it.”

On this Monday here’s what I want to encourage us with.  Please pick up the phone.  Make that call, send that letter, go see that person.  Talk to the stranger, write the scary dream email to that person you’re not sure will even read it.  What’s that thing you’ve been longing to do but fear is holding you back?  What’s that thing that you’re not doing because it’s awkward and embarrassing.  Sometimes it takes 2o seconds of embarrassing bravery.

I don’t know what will come of my 20 seconds of embarrassing bravery but I do know I’m glad I did it.  Maybe you’re not like this but when I don’t send the email or say something I wanted to I always keep wondering what might have happened.  Sure, you might not get the outcome you’re hoping for but I can guarantee you that something great will come of it.  You will get stronger.  Keep flexing your courage muscle in 20 second intervals.  You won’t regret it.  You won’t leave things unsaid and undone that you’d wish you’d said and done.

So shoot me an email  (misselaini [@] gmail.com  -remove brackets and spaces) or leave me a comment below telling me what you need to do with your 20 seconds of insane courage.  I’m here rooting for you!

Posted on May 23, 2016 by |

Quotes!

_Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen._ ~ Winston Churchill“If you want to go fast, go alone.  If you want to go far, go together.” ~ African Proverb

“You should always be learning.  If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong place.” ~ Erika Bearman

“To be a witness does not consist of engaging in propaganda, or even in stirring people up, but in being a living mystery.  It means to live in such a way that one’s life would not make sense if God did not exist.” ~ Cardinal Emmanuel Suhard

“She was beautiful, but not like those girls in the magazines.  She was beautiful, for the way she thought.  She was beautiful for that sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved.  She was beautiful for her ability to make other people smile even if she was sad.  No, she wasn’t beautiful for something as temporary as her looks.  She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. ” ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald

“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back– Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”  ~ W. H. Murray in The Scottish Himalaya Expedition, 1951

Posted on May 20, 2016 by |

Dinner party conversations

Dinner Party Conversations blog postThirteen people including myself sat around the dinner table. Thirteen lives but really so many more than that. You see one life is the product of so many others before. Slips of paper with questions written on them were passed around and the stories began. This is dinner party conversations.

Drinks had to be refilled and the cheese board came back out again long after our bellies were full of yummy food. It was one of those dinner parties where you linger a long time. I was one of the youngest people there and that’s when I knew things would be fun.

If you’re not hanging out with people who are at least 30 years older than you then you are doing it all wrong. You’re missing out on some of the most incredible stories you’ll ever hear. It’s like a backstage pass to history.

One woman in particular had the most incredible stories to share about her father. She told how he had had to flee the country and literally left without anything. This was shortly after WWII and communism was on the rise. If you resisted you were in trouble in certain countries and would be thrown in jail. It was one of those moments where someone came to the door, a friend betrayed him.

Recognizing what was happening he calmly asked for a moment to go change out of his swimsuit and he bolted out the back door. Hoping the fence he went into his mother’s house and briefly explained the situation and fled to the woods. From what I can recall he never got to see them again. For nine months he hid until family and friends were able to secure a boat for him to sneak out of the country.

These are real stories my friends. If her dad hadn’t of escaped she might not have been sitting there telling us her amazing history. During that conversation where I sat mesmerized she mentioned that her uncle had decided to stay in the country and was arrested. She told about the letters he had written to his family. They sounded incredible.

Later on as everyone got up to leave I spoke with her about reading the letters and she said that they hadn’t been translated but she’d see what she could do. A few days later she graciously sent me a link with one of the translated letters and my eyes got misty reading it. I asked her if I could share it here and she kindly said I could. So here is one of the letters her uncle sent from the prison where he was eventually strangled at the age of 33.

My Dear Mother,

I¢ m writing a joyous letter for Christmas to you. Don’t cry because I am not there to decorate the Christmas tree and set up the Nativity scene with Davor. Here, in my heart I have made a big, golden Christmas tree and the crib for Little Jesus.

The Just One will come into the heart of the just because he said so.

All the bells in my tissues ring, my soul is a singing nightingale in the bushes. Thank you my dearest mother for this feeling which surpasses all the feelings. Thank You and the Grace. Because there is no more noble idea than the idea of love.

Here, Love is being born into the world, here Love is being born into me.

What harm can my enemy do to me when I love him?

For my yoke is easy and my burden light, so light that I don’t even feel it in any other way but as happiness. So how can you be sad because of your son? Rejoice with me because it was written: I will turn your mourning into joy, your sighs into joyous shouts, your tears into laughter.

I’m here in the dining room, next to the Christmas tree and I’m singing. The tree lights are burning and their reflection shines in your eyes. The light of Christ is burning in us. The dark was dispersed by the torch of love, because God loved the world so much that He sent His Son to Earth to suffer and die. Is there a greater example of love, can a human imagination create a similar example? The example of Christ shines like a lighthouse before us. Let us love so that tonight we can be happy in the presence of our Lord in full obedience to God’s command. And let His mercy rest upon us. Having the two of those – Love and Mercy – we are rich enough and we ask for nothing else.

Rejoice dearest mother for this Christmas and don’t cry because I’m not there to decorate the Christmas tree and the Nativity scene with Davor. Here, in my heart, I have made a big, golden Christmas tree and the crib, waiting for Little Jesus.

The Just One will come into the heart of the just because he said so.

Your Ivo

How do I even have words after reading that?  My soul is in awe of Ivo’s story.  He had something, Someone, who made words like that possible.  He clearly loved Jesus and that made all the difference.  Next time you’re at a diner party I hope the conversation turns to things like this. I hope you ask good questions.  Until then I hope this snippet from my dinner party conversation blesses and encourages you.  “Here, Love is being born into the world, here Love is being born into me.”

{Credit: Photo and letter link here}

Posted on May 16, 2016 by |

Have a sweet weekend!

Link-love 5-13-16 | Misselainious blogHope you all have a sweet weekend filled with the people and things you love!  Here’s some link love inspiration. 🙂

How to talk about poverty without being a jerk.

Who’s your daddy?  This is such a wonderful reminder! Just *listen* to this list.

Now you can enjoy gluten free art… Haha this is too funny! 😀

Well this is an awesome photo (and it doesn’t get much cooler than these two) by Annie Leibovitz.  (She’s one of my favorite photographers!)

My Australian “sister” sends me these funny old ads every now and then trying to convince me to come visit and they always crack me up.  After I figure out what they are saying of course. 😉

Would you make these and use them?  It sounds better for you…

Apparently there’s ANOTHER hidden message inbox on Facebook.  (I tried this and totally found a legit message that I’d never received from over a year ago!)

Photo credit: Holly Gantenbein  (This picture is one of my very best friends from a photo shoot we did for our 21st birthday.)

Posted on May 13, 2016 by |

Quotes!

"All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel mother." Abraham Lincoln Quotes 5-6-16 | Misselainious blogSince it’s Mother’s Day this weekend all these quotes will be inspired by that and the topic of nurturing.  Hey maybe you can steal one for that card you’re going to write to a mother or mother figure in your life. 😉

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” ~ Leo Buscaglia

“All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.” ~ Abraham Lincoln

“What people aren’t craving is perfection, or shockingly high standards.  People aren’t longing to be impressed.  They are longing to feel like they’re home.” ~ Shauna Niequist

“The greatest heroes in life are those that never give up on someone.  They stick it out and make it work. They sacrifice things in their life, in order to help others grow.  They give up what they want because someone needs it more.  They work hard and overcome adversity.  They fail for a moment, but get back up on their feet to show others they don’t have to stay down.  They show their loved ones that love is not “proved” by conformity.  They teach others that having a voice is a sign of courage, and they will not stay silent to make people feel comfortable.  They are fearless and will do whatever it takes to bring about the greatness in the ones they love because doing so brings them peace.  Their name is—MOM.” ~ Shannon L. Alder

“Was it the act of giving birth that made you a mother?  Did you lose that label when you relinquished your child? If people were measured by their deeds, on the one hand, I had a woman who had chosen to give me up; on the other, I had a woman who’d sat up with me at night when I was sick as a child, who’d cried with me over boyfriends, who’d clapped fiercely at my law school graduation.  Which acts made you more of a mother?  Both, I realized.  Being a parent wasn’t just about bearing a child.  It was about bearing witness to its life.” ~ Jodi Picoult

“I looked on child rearing not only as a work of love & duty but as a profession that was fully as interesting & challenging as any honorable profession in the world and one that demanded the best that I could bring to it.” ~ Rose Kennedy

“How can it be a large career to tell other people’s children about the Rule of Three, and a small career to tell one’s own children about the universe?  How can it be broad to be the same thing to everyone, and narrow to be everything to someone?  No.  A woman’s function is laborious, but because it is gigantic, not because it is minute.  I will pity Mrs. Jones for the hugeness of her task; I will never pity her for its smallness.” ~ G.K. Chesterton

“It takes a little bit of mindfulness and a little bit of attention to others to be a good listener, which helps cultivate emotional nurturing and engagement.” ~ Deepak Chopra

“I love being nurturing and caring because I love to see other people happy.” ~ Jennifer Hudson

“The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.  It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows.  The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.” ~ Audrey Hepburn

Posted on May 6, 2016 by |

Mother’s Day meals

Mother's Day Meal Plans |  Misselainious blogHello friends!  So mother’s day is right around the corner and I thought it might be fun to make a list of meals you could surprise your mother with and make for her!  Often it’s the meal planning part that is the hardest thing for me to come up with so I thought I’d take the guess work out of it and help you out with these options.  I’ve also pinned these yummy recipes to my Pinterest food board if you want to make these exact options! 🙂  (My Pinterest user name is MissElaini)

Breakfast/Brunch

Avocado strawberry + goat cheese toast. (This can be a gluten free.)
Asparagus crustless quiche
Bacon or sausage if you didn’t already but it in the quiche
Watermelon with mint

To drink: tea, coffee, orange juice, or a smoothie.

Lunch

Pear arugula salad
Grilled (or baked) honey mustard chicken
Roasted red potatoes with garlic
Sourdough rolls or crusty bread

To drink: Sweet tea, sparkling water, or lemon water

Dinner

Grilled steak and veggie kabobs
Buttered rice or Cilantro-Lime rice (use beef broth…)
Vanilla ice cream with peach chutney (for dessert)

To drink: Martinelli’s

You can buy a lot of these things at the store instead of making it all from scratch but if you do want to get in the kitchen and make some of these fresh you can just check out the pin on my Food board on Pinterest! 🙂  (Misselaini is my username.)

Posted on May 2, 2016 by |

Have a fun weekend!

Link love 4-29-16 | Misselainious blogHave a fun and wonderful weekend lovely friends! Here’s a little link love for you to explore and enjoy. 🙂

This deconstructed garden is so gorgeous. 

What’s the coolest thing you’ve done?  People 0-100 tell what the coolest thing is they’ve done.

Generational photos always get me…plus can you imagine having this be your legacy and future?!

Okay this game is addicting and also helps you learn a lot of history so it’s a win win.

I need to keep this list of 18 healthy snacks on hand...

In my dreams I get to use this when I travel…

Um these are the coolest crackers.  Now I want to play with these!

I dare you not to get sucked in reading these raw heartfelt snippets of people’s lives.

Posted on April 29, 2016 by |

Easy smoothies

Easy smoothie recipes | Misselainious blogHello friends!  Years ago my family started our own juice bar where we made smoothies and fresh juice. (That’s another story for another day though.)  They were amazing and I loved trying all the varieties we had.  Since that time I’ve never stopped making up easy smoothies and so I thought it would be fun to share some of my go to combos and links to other yummy looking easy smoothie recipes.  Enjoy!  Also I’ve created a list just for you of easy add-in ideas to make your smoothie even better/healthier!  You’ll want to pin this one for those hot days when you need a refreshing drink or even if you just need a quick pick me up snack/lunch.

1 cup plain or honey yogurt
1 cup mixed frozen berries
1/2 a banana
1 tablespoon honey

1 cup plain or honey yogurt
1 1/2 cups frozen mango chunks
1/2 cup orange juice (more if it’s a little thick)

10 ounces of honey yogurt
1 1/2 teaspoon lime concentrate
1/2 cup frozen strawberries
16 ounces ice (preferably crushed ice…)

Here are some more yummy sounding ones I want to try!

Easy Peach Fruit Smoothie

Pineapple Paradise Spinach Smoothie

Raspberry Coconut Smoothie

All this talk of these easy yummy drinks are making me hungry…I’m off to make one of these folks!  I love learning new smoothie combos so if you have a favorite please share it with us in the comments below. And don’t forget to get your free list of add-ins here! 🙂

Posted on April 27, 2016 by |

Quotes

"Did you ever stop to think, and forget to start again?" ~ A.A. Milne | Quotes 4-22-16 Misselainious blogHope you’re all enjoying this spring weather! Here are some quotes to help you pause and reflect.  Feel free to pass them on and encourage someone else today! 🙂

“In each of my friends there is something that only some other friend can fully bring out. By myself I am not large enough to call the whole man into activity; I want other lights than my own to show all his facets… Hence true Friendship is the least jealous of loves.” ~ C.S. Lewis

“Painful as it may be, a significant emotional event can be the catalyst for choosing a direction that serves us – and those around us – more effectively. Look for the learning.” ~ Louisa May Alcott

“Did you ever stop to think, and forget to start again?” ~ A.A. Milne

“We live in a world of wants ads.  Some of them are printed on pages; many more are unspoken.  Wanted: A woman who is a perfect friend, mom, wife, coworker, housekeeper, cook, driver, thinker, encourager, and more.  Messy, real, in-progress people need not apply.  God has a very different idea in mind.  Wanted: A woman who is imperfect, in need of grace, gloriously gifted, flawed, and beautiful and who dares to believe she’s loved through it all by a God who has an amazing purpose for her life.  No need to apply.  You’ve already been chosen.”  ~ Holly Gerth

“Lord, let me make a difference for you that is utterly disproportionate to who I am.”  ~ David Brainerd

“Instead of fighting against weakness and trying to escape vulnerability and transparency, we should stand in the middle of it until we see Jesus.  And as a woman of influence, invite others in, as it’s a chance to let others see God through our weakness.” ~Ashley Proffitt

“We won’t be distracted with comparison if we are captivated with purpose.” ~ Bob Goff

Posted on April 22, 2016 by |

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